Not to mention, women need to stop playing the damned blame game so much, b/c "quiet as kept" we hold 98% of the power (that's what my mother taught me), the man's sperm is only 2% b/c without the egg, womb, and strength/nourishment of the woman carrying that child or children, that sperm is worthless!
If WOMEN made intellectual decisions vs entitlement based and sexual decisions, the world would be a better place... SMH I could go on for days but this won't happen until "everyone" takes responsibility for their part in the matter and not only makes a decision to correct it, but stands by that decision through action
Here's an inside look at a Facebook conversation that took place around this very topic!
- I can't say the same for other women. that's why "my reality" allows me to state that I'm 98% and his sperm was 2% because without my "approval and carrying out of the pregnancy" that sperm wouldn't have meant anything but another fun ass night!
- The fact that "I" chose to "allow" his sperm to not only fertilize an egg, but I allowed that egg to grow and mature, gave me the power, because men can't be fathers without women first deciding to be mothers, otherwise it's only "sex"..... that's my opinion and I'm sticking to it.. I'm not going to be that woman that says "he got me pregnant, he anit shit, he don't want the baby, etc.." CU
- however society has it "twisted" right now.....you say you don't want women to treat their kids as commodities, yet you are giving values to the factors that = kid..........egg without sperm = extinction..
- A lot of parents, specifically women aren't "adequate" in regards to their parenting and that's because the "factor" is already embedded within their spirit, therefore it manifest in their behavior.
- I don't want to "De-value" the man's role either, however in equating his sperm to 2% of the reproduction process is an effort to have the "women be held accountable" for their pregnancies!
- Because again If we as women chose to have children for "the right reasons which from what I was taught and have learned through my own experiences are: love, carrying out God's plan being fruitful and multiplying" not so he can stay, not so I can get a check, etc...
- then I wouldn't have to use those % to get my point across... but women blame men and I just don't get that part at all! I've avoided numerous pregnancies and heartaches by making "intelligent timely decisions"
What is your opinion on our opinions and experiences? What is your opinion? What kind of experience(s) have you had or are having? Do you as the mother or father or your child view or treat them as a commodity, liability, or gift from God?
HBIC_PHILANTHROPY
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